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Perimenopause and menopause: what is happening, what helps and what the NHS now says

Attitudes to menopause care have changed significantly in the past 5 years. Here is the current picture.

What is happening hormonally

Perimenopause is the transition period during which oestrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate and decline. Menopause is the point 12 months after the last period. Symptoms result from hormonal fluctuations — which is why they are often most intense during perimenopause rather than post-menopause. The average age of menopause in the UK is 51; perimenopause typically begins 4–10 years earlier.

HRT: what NICE now says

NICE guidelines updated in 2015 and 2023 state that HRT is the most effective treatment for menopausal symptoms and that the risks for most healthy women under 60 are small relative to the benefits. The previous scare about breast cancer risk was based on older combined HRT formulations; current body-identical HRT (transdermal oestrogen with micronised progesterone) carries a different risk profile. Every woman should discuss options with her GP or a menopause specialist. Use our free perimenopause symptom tracker to document symptoms before appointments.

Lifestyle changes that help

Regular aerobic exercise reduces hot flush frequency and severity. Weight-bearing exercise protects against bone density loss. Reducing alcohol and caffeine reduces hot flush triggers. Phytoestrogens (soy, flaxseed, chickpeas) may have mild oestrogenic effects. Sleep hygiene (our free sleep checklist) is critical — night sweats disrupt sleep, and sleep disruption amplifies every other symptom.

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Frequently asked questions

How do I know if I am perimenopausal?
The most common signs: irregular periods (shorter, longer, heavier or lighter than usual), hot flushes, night sweats, sleep disruption, mood changes, brain fog, joint pain and vaginal dryness. Perimenopause is typically diagnosed based on symptoms and age (over 45) without blood tests — hormone levels fluctuate too widely during perimenopause to be reliably diagnostic.
Can I take HRT if I have a family history of breast cancer?
This depends on the specific type of breast cancer in the family history and the type of HRT. This should be discussed with a GP or menopause specialist who can provide individualised advice. The Menopause Support website (menopausesupport.co.uk) provides information on finding NHS and private menopause specialists.