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How to plan a gender reveal party: ideas, activities and the big reveal

Gender reveal parties range from intimate family gatherings to elaborate events. Here is how to plan one that fits what you actually want.

Decide on the scale first

A small afternoon tea with immediate family feels very different to a garden party for 40. Both are completely valid. The scale determines the venue, food, and reveal method. Start there before deciding anything else.

The reveal itself

Popular reveal methods: a box of balloons (pink or blue burst out), a cake with coloured sponge inside, a scratch card revealing the gender, confetti cannons, or simply an announcement. The reveal method should match the party's size and style — a confetti cannon for six people is excessive; a quiet cake-cutting moment for 30 people can fall flat.

Activities to fill the time

Games make the pre-reveal wait more engaging. Our free gender reveal games sheet includes guest guesses, name suggestions and predictions — all of which pay off when the reveal happens. Baby shower games also work well if the groups overlap.

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Frequently asked questions

When should a gender reveal party be held?
Most commonly between 16 and 20 weeks, once the gender is confirmed by anomaly scan. If you find out earlier through NIPT or early private scan, any time from 12 weeks is possible.
What if we want to keep the gender a surprise?
You absolutely can — fewer parents find out the gender than social media implies. If you do not want to find out, skip the gender reveal entirely and have a baby shower instead.