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Planning a christening in the UK: church, venue and celebration

A christening (baptism) is one of the most meaningful family occasions. Here is how to plan one that is personal, smooth and memorable.

The church booking

Contact the church well in advance — most christenings take place on a Sunday and the vicar's diary books up months ahead. Most Church of England churches require at least one parent to be a regular worshipper, or to attend a baptism preparation meeting. Dates around Christmas and Easter fill fastest.

Choosing godparents

Godparents (typically 2–4) take on a spiritual role and a commitment to support the child's faith journey. In the Church of England, at least one must be confirmed. In practice, godparents are close friends or family the parents trust to be present in the child's life. Ask early — it is an honour but also a responsibility.

The reception

Christenings are typically followed by a home lunch, restaurant booking or garden party. Keep it relaxed — christenings span generations and the baby will likely be tired and overwhelmed. Use our free christening planning checklist to track every element.

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Frequently asked questions

Can you have a christening without being religious?
Technically no — a christening/baptism is a Christian sacrament. However, many non-practising families do hold them with the agreement of a sympathetic vicar. Alternatively, a naming ceremony (conducted by a celebrant, not a church) achieves the same celebratory purpose without the religious commitment.
What is a godparent expected to do?
Formally: affirm Christian beliefs at the christening. Practically: maintain a relationship with the child, remember birthdays, and be a positive presence in their life. The extent of involvement varies enormously between families.