Timing and who hosts
Typically held 4–8 weeks before the due date — close enough to feel imminent, far enough that it does not clash with maternity leave admin. Traditionally hosted by a close friend or sister rather than the expectant parent herself (though self-hosted showers are increasingly common and acceptable). Guest list: 15–25 is a comfortable size for a home shower.
The format that works
2–3 hours is ideal — lunch or afternoon tea works better than evening (guests do not stay too late, and the mum-to-be is not exhausted by 9pm). A structured first hour (games, food), then an unstructured second hour for gifts and conversation. 3–4 games maximum. Use our free baby shower games collection and welcome sign.
What the guest of honour actually wants
Ask her. Some people want a big fuss; others find the attention overwhelming. Check whether she wants games or prefers a relaxed gathering. Ask about dietary requirements. A thoughtful small shower that reflects her personality beats a generic large one every time.
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